In Her Own Words
About Her
I am considered warm, a "good catch," generous,kind,integrity,I don't sweat the small stuff.I am healthy emotionally & physically,have staying power,commit for the long haul & want a woman with the courage to love with her whole heart.I love to travel, see artsy film,good music,food,theatre,all things sea-sun-sky,windnfog.I am comfortable in casual or formal venues.I travel to nice places, like Australia, Bermuda, Canada, New Zealand,the UK,SA,Okinawa,plus travel for training-consultancy work. I was on Faculty for a leading Online Uni and worked in Director role for our island State. I am smart,savvy,hedonist,am quite the romantic and enjoy delicious lovemaking but only with the right partner...meaning I am selective and hold high regard for intimacy.Your beauty & our chemistry is important to me-if we have chemistry, communication,commitment & SOH,we can sort the rest! My hair is blonde frosted & I have no gray hairs for real (& don't plan to...ever...smile).I am considered energetic & youthful.If we become a 'we' I will always make quality time for you,no matter what & you will always be my 'number 1.'I can travel to you or bring you to me,whatever works,once we connect well by chat or message in a bottle...Take the chance on me if you like what you see.Love HAS NO BORDERS.I am very open to making new friends & contacts, but truly seek a life partner.I know how to love well,be your safeharbour,let you fold into me if you will but just love me back and let me know I am your Number1.If you have reached the point in your life, where you are truly seeking a life partner,close your eyes and consider me.If it feels right, send your boomerang out to me and I will come back to you...smile.I assure you that I am no ordinary woman..so if you are ready to 'love up & settle4more' then find me.I may just be the one you are praying or wishing for. A desire to explore NYC with me may get you bonus points...lol.Aussie blonde beauty & SouthAfricans get special attention...smile. If this resonates,risk and reach4me.
About Her Ideal Match
Honest with tact,a beauty who takes care of her body, likes to do things together,open to new places & travel, enjoys romance & loves to make good love (smile).A woman who is able to commit.An educated woman who takes an interest in the world.Is open to seeing some tennis, film, adventure with me.Open to sharing her world & making real room for me & become part of an "our" world,who understands that building a solid 'we' is essential for a vibrant,growing, passionate,interactive truly healthy relationship.A woman who is brave, versatile,easygoing,good SOH, understanding,nurturing & truly likes being a couple.A woman who appreciates me for me, unconditionally when and where it counts.I have LOTS of understanding for many shortcomings,more than most,I am not perfect but open to growing-I want a woman who is willing to get to know me & not make snap judgments about anything until we get to know each other.In sum,a woman who is genuinely open in her heart,who will come to me with her whole heart from trust & courage to love again. Life after all is short & a gift much of the time. My ideal match might live in Australia,the UK,New Z,South Africa or someplace else that is warm OR she might be willing to live someplace nice,with me,in time.She is attractive,open,willing,reliable, appreciates my "warrior self"-yes I am an Aries...smile-I am protective without being intrusive,loyal without being in her face,and as reliable as a rock.She appreciates the ying and yang of everything.And is open to meeting me & risking, again...& she knows herself well enough to make promises that she can & does keep. Reliability & being able to count on her is of high importance to me.I don't support broken promises nor broken hearts, nor do I dish them out.Love has no borders & hearts have not heard of post codes.I truly can be your safeharbour if you will come & see how our chemistry flows.Risk.I am well worth your effort.
ps-I am allergic to cats,smoking and too much cursing-meaning these are not part of my life.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Honolulu, Hawaii, United States | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
73 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
48 - 64 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Changes Often; Greying | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Orange |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Aussie Rules Football; Baseball; Birdwatching; Bowling; Canoeing; Cricket; Darts; Extreme sports; Golf; Hiking; Pool; Rugby; Sailing; Shooting; Snorkeling; Soccer; Softball; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz US: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
