In His Own Words
About Him
I am not gonna lie, I was devastated by the loss. But my friends and family would say I am pretty much back to normal now. I appear to be, but I am not 100%. Just thought you should know up front. I did, however, recently clear the guilt milestone. That is, I no longer feel guilty about the prospect of committing to and falling in love with someone new. I am ready to move on with my life. She would want me to. That's why I am here.
Life has so much to offer and the time has come to start looking for someone to share it with. I am an indepenident man with lots to offer. I like to enjoy all of what life presents to me. I will try about anything and enjoy new experiences. I like to spend time with others and also some solo time.
I am important. So are other people, especially if they are in trouble. I think I have a tender heart, but I know how to establish and keep personal boundaries. I am empathetic and compassionate, but I also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves, if they are able. I am deeply moved by the needs of others, but I know that if I don't take good care of myself, I will wind up being of no use to anyone. So mine is a thoughtful compassion. I strive to be fair and sensible, taking care of others while also taking care of myself. When someone really is in trouble, I like to collaborate with them toward a solution; they do their part, you do mine. I consider carefully, and respond in a sensible way; they do their part, and together we move through the difficulty.
About His Ideal Match
Good relationships are based on good communication. The good feelings make this kind of communication possible. The ability to listen carefully with consideration is a way of promoting these genuine feelings. Listening is not passive but an active attitude of respect and give room for others so that they can express themselves openly and calmly. Listening is an act of love. It may sound simple but the impact on relationships is incredible.
I am not looking for a love at first sight. Just want a friend to enjoy time with and see how things go. What happens happens from there. If you have the desire and want to take a chance, you will be pleasantly surprised. So let us toss on jeans and a tee and go have fun or get dressed up and enjoy an evening out
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Atlanta, Georgia | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
White | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Wealthy |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
United States | ||
Location: |
Canada; United States | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 72 | ||
Star Sign: |
Libra | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Technical Diploma | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Quiet |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Yellow |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Romance; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz US: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |